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Hani Obaid: About restaurants, to me there're only two important things:1. Taste2. Hygiene3. Noise, I like quiet restaurants so you can hear each other talk instead of 50 p..
Qwaider: سوزان ... اكييييييييييد ما بقصدك.. يا جماعة ليش كل واحد بيقرأ ه..
سوزان : صراحه تحليل رائع ..
hatem abunimeh: KJ# 23Did you mean to say watch your insulin or watch your glucose!?Dr. Hareega: Can you help us out . Thanks...
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Hareega: What does "good" and "bad" mean?? You'll be surprised by how different are the standards of good and bad are among people even those coming from the same moral/religious background..
KJ: Religion won't change the fact that a person is inherently "good" or "bad" Being obligated to be goo..
Sabeur: Don't forget We like apple products also All your points are true, which really sucks..
saed: Over-generalizing, and honestly you seem quite biased.If an atheist were to say that about you, would you say it's fair?..
Husams: Thanks man, I come here from time to time, hope all great with you :)Back to the topicThe morals you find in a religion are interpolations of necessities required for ..
za3tar: hahahahahaha ... wal wal wal ... what brought this on ? :-)..
hamede: hatem.What the amorality of Atheism entails is a lack of obligation to any system of morality...
a different perspective: Someone should write a post titled "Believers might be good"..
Mariyah: I guess you could say that blogging is like every other area of life. Some use it well, while others abuse it. The fact that people don't always use their real names is not really an issue. I thin..
marwa: i totally agree with ya .. this message must reach every1 blkee enas za2at 3ala 7alha !!! ..
Princess N: ok you got me.. I am confessing.. Princess N is NOT my real name :)I think since I only have time to read the blogs of the people that I already know I dont know what you mean.. I have a f..
kinzi: QWaider, oh, I am so glad nothing 'happened'. You don't need that kind of aggravation. There is only one Qwaider Planet, my #1 aggregator. Thanks for being there!! ..
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زواج التخجيل
سمعنا و تكلمنا كثيرا عن زواج المتعة، و الزواج التقليدي، والعرفي والمدني والحشيشي ... و آخر موضة الزواج التخجيلي
"بدنا نفرح فيك يا حبيبي"
"ابوك كبر و نفسه يشوف ولادك و يطّمن ع مستقبلك"
"يا حبيبي هيك ما شاءالله عليك بتشتغل و شغلك منيح مش ناقصك الا بنت الحلال"
"يمه يا حبيبي البنت لقطه و بخاف اتضيع عليك"
"طيب هاديك طلعتها طويله و هبلة و الثانية منخارها طويل و الثالثة ما حبيت ابوها هاي شو مالها؟"
"يا حبيبي لا تضيع مصاريك هيك بكرة وراك اسرة و بيت ومحتاج مصاريف الله يرضى عليك"
"شو بدك اتضلك داير على حل شعرك لا وراك لا بيت ولا مرة ولا مسؤوليه"
"يمه انا خايفة بكرة تروح عليك و ما تلاقيلك وحدة تقبل تاخد واحد صار عمره 30 سنه"
و طبعا سلسلة الموشحات لا تنتهي .. و حبل الاعذار قصير.. بالآخر الواحد بدّو ينجبر و يتنيّل على عينه و مهما كانت دفاعاته قويه الا ما تسقط امام الضغط الشديد و المستمر لحد ما يقرر انه يتزوج خجلا لا اكثر (و علشان يرتاح من وجع الراس و الزن)
الغريب انه في مجتمعاتنا الموصوفة بالذكرية، تحلم البنات ان تتمتع بحرية الشباب ، بدون ان تدري ان الشاب ايضا يقع تحت ضغوط مجتمعية تتوقع منه ان ينهي التوجيهي في سن معين و الا كان فاشل و سقيطه. وان ينهي الجامعة في وقت معين والا كان هامل و ما بستاهل يخش جامعات
و طبعا ان يجد وظيفه و الا كان عاطل و كسول و عايش عاله على ابوه.
و ما بلحق الواحد ياخذ نفسه من الاستحقاقات المتتاليه حتى تبدأ طبعا موشحات الزواج
في النهاية... بيخجل الشب ... و بيستحي من اهله ... و بيرضخ للأمر الواقع... خلص شوفولي بنت زي ما بدكم ..
وطبعا الشب يتكفل بكل تكاليف الزواج من شبكه(3000 الى 10000 على الاقل) و مهر (5000 الى 20000 على الاقل) و عرس (>6000) و شهر عسل(>6000) و غيره و غيراته
و تبدأ المأساه بزواج مبني على أسس سخيفه.. و تنتهي بطلاق اسرع.. و مشاكل مالية بسبب الديون... و محاكم على المؤخر... تنتهي بالتسوية او لا تنتهي ابدا ...
... لتعود الموشحات من جديد مع اضافة... "بدك الناس تشمت فينا؟" "والله لأجوزك ست ستها" "شو يقولو عنّك مطلق و انته ما صرت 30؟" "انشاالله بدك اتضلك قاعد و هي تروح تتجوز ، لا لازم تتجوز و تحط على عينها"
يمه؟... نعم يا حبيبي...انا قررت انتحر... او اهاجر بدي اروح عند اولاد خالي ع دبي
استنه يمه بس الاقيلك عروس
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Naryat-
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Session=
Memories....
المشكلة حتى لو العرسان قدموا تنازلات و قالوا بلاش هاي و بلاش هاي على الاقل بدهم 20 الف و مين من الشباب اللي بعدة بأول عمرة معة هيك مبلغ الا اذا كان مدعوم ماديا من اهلة؟
الزواج مش مزحة و عيشة عمر و اذا ما كانو التنين متوافقين من كل النواحي تقريبا ما بنفع
عشان هيك بتلاقي اللي بتزوجو هم اللي فوق ال30 او اكبر او المقرشين
و بعدين هاي الاشياء اللي تفضلتي و ذكرتيها، ليش يتكفل فيها لحاله المصخّم؟
تسلم يا الغالي على هالموضوع الحلو
I hate the concept of marriage in its traditional sense.
One thing caught my eye though, there seems to be an unspoken agreement about 'traditional marriage'. what makes a marriage a traditional one? (a Jaha?)and What would you classify as an untraditional marriage? (to elope for instance?)
but it didnt change my mind that gurls have more pressure concerning life-death decisions!!
hahahaah bas jd nice post :)
LOL .. well I do hear about that all the time .. my aunts drive my cousins into this .. and any guy who passes 30-35 has to go under the "ZANNNN" issue .. However, let me tell you something .. I believe that no guy would get married unless if he wants to.. And I have so evidential living proves around me! .. Seriously .. guys wont get into marriage unless they want it ..
Well .. I agree with Mala2e6 , its not only about the wedding party .. the life itself , preparing for the house of a mutual living consumes lots and lots of the guy's financials .. and in the last couple of years .. things gone crazy around here prices of almost everything thing are doubling ..
Well .. as I always say .. Allah y3een elshabab .. because they are under the pressure financially .. but that of course doesn't mean that girls don't have their share of parental pressure .. not necessarily with this subject :)
Lammoush, inti wainek ya bint el 7alal... wallah el blog ishta2 la 3yoonek
Spekkie: What makes a traditional marriage a traditional marriage is the way it's conducted. Groom and Bride had no previous relationship, and were introduced through friends or family. They don't have direct interaction. And the families meet and introduce each other. The bride and groom get acquainted through this family system. And if all goes well, they proceed to the engagement (which is, a documented official marriage, and the groom pays most of the expenses even before anything else happens) They're also forbidden from being alone (just in case they have some weird ideas and decide to consummate the marriage prematurely) and then comes the wedding ceremony ...and they live happily ever after and have 7 kids
the bottom line ta7sheeeeesh!
Anyway,
I totally agree and I keep looking how the person leaves Tawjihi, to Jam3a, leaves Jam3a to a Job, stays in Job, to Marriage, from marriage to marriage with kids, and still in Job hah! And from all these to death!
I mean.
where is my time? Don't I deserve time for myself?
Why not the money I earn induldge myself a bit with it?
hehehe. Materialisitc? So be it! *shrug*
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yes I agree he would keep on hearing his family nagging about the fact that he passed a certain age and it’s the TIME for him to have a family but if he did not think that it’s the TIME then he wont go for it ..even if he's having second and third thoughts about the wife to be .. well.. I am talking out of my cousins experiences.. most of them did not get married before reaching their mid 30's .. and they all were somehow against the marriage thing until they met the one who changed that for them ..
I simply agree with all of what you said .. but the outcome of the parents , aunts , uncles and all the elderly relatives talk will put the guy in the "guilty for not making my family happy about this subject" state .. yet .. he wont GO for it unless he wants it ..
We often think of the "Grass is always greener" a single man looks at his married friends and thinks .. Oh my god they look so happy. I wish I could be like them. When in fact, they're not happy. They're just putting a show for everyone.
Bottom line, Some are very happy married. Some are very happy single ...
I have this theory: the reason not enough men challenge traditions (aside from Mother's tears which also affect women) is that as inconvenient some traditions maybe, they still offer privileges for the guy. In a traditional marriage, he's boss. Need I say more?
Ba3dain, if you want to talk about men vs. women in marriage, let's talk about "laws." The inequity becomes clearer. Just my 2 cents.
I was going to talk about that next.
Apparently everyone sees themselves as victims of poor social laws. I for one dream of the day when men have the same amount of rights as women :) but I'm not the usual XY
o thats why mafe devorce kteer 3ena,, rarely..
Don't sell your soul to the devil. But if someone good comes around, take my advice, give him a chance :)